Someone I know who has gone through a tragic loss very recently- posted this on her FB and it resonated with me so much.

“These myths are nothing more than platitudes cloaked as sophistication, and they preclude us from doing the one and only thing we must do when our lives are turned upside down: grieve.”

http://www.timjlawrence.com/blog/2015/10/19/everything-doesnt-happen-for-a-reason